I got published in this journal and it finally came today and I was one of 17 contributors and I was the only one without an author bio… I don’t know if I missed something but no one contacted me about submitting one. Maybe I should have taken it upon myself to do that? I was so happy when I got accepted but right now I’m really tired and drained. It shouldn’t seem like a big deal except I feel left out a little and this journal was really important to me in order to achieve exposure to certain identities I don’t always talk about in my life. I worked all day at my internship and then I had to work at the store tonight and close. I got home after 10 pm. I haven’t packed for a trip I’m taking on Wednesday. And I’m a little stressed out about studying. I’m not really in a good mood because I haven’t been able to text or snap chat back some of my friends that I really care about. I’m so tired that I fell asleep at 8 pm last night and still had to rip myself out of bed at 720 this morning for work. It was bitter cold out. I just am not sure if I’m getting the best internship experience depending on what department I am in on certain days.
I’m beginning to realize that I need to stop apologizing for things all the time and saying “sorry”. And right after that I’m going to apologize to all of you for ranting and being a bummer. I’m sorry if this brought your day down. I hope you’re all having a good week and feeling strong. I just don’t feel that pumped right now. Thanks for listening and thanks for your support. I appreciate it so much.
Social Change Through Consumerism: Feminist Style
[Amulya] Sanagavarapu, who is finishing up her final semester at the University of Waterloo in Canada, was inspired by a prank from activist group FORCE, which advertised a fake line of “consent panties” from Victoria’s Secret last year. When it was clear that no existing companies were making moves to create the undies — despite obvious interest from would-be consumers on Twitter — Sanagavarapu decided to step up and do it herself.
So Feminist Style was born, and with it a debut line of consent-themed panties and briefs. The collection features different styles for both men and women, detailed with statements like “Ask first,” “Consent is sexy,” and “Only yes means yes,” mixed with messages of body positivity. Her hope is that it will encourage a more thoughtful discourse on consent and sexual boundaries.
“I think having consent panties as a real product out in the market, as actual alternatives to underwear slogans that teach that ‘no’ is a way to flirt (i.e., “No peeking”), would serve as a small step to shifting the culture around consent,” Sanagavarapu wrote to BuzzFeed.
“They aren’t meant to speak for the wearer, and they won’t stop serial rapists, but they may serve as sort of a fun way to initiate conversations about boundaries and what each person is or is not comfortable with. The main goal is to help shift the culture from one that encourages sexual objectification to one that promotes consent education.”
The underwear isn’t available for purchase just yet, but she’s launched a Kickstarter to raise enough money to make the idea a reality. Proceeds from underwear sales will in turn be used to fund feminist advertising.
“Our feminist advertising will mostly be in the form of PSAs that bring awareness to the issues that our products are targeting — so to start with they will target issues of consent and rape culture,” Sanagavarapu told us, citing videos from New Zealand’s “Who Are You?” campaign and YWCA Auckland as examples. “Anything that promotes our products directly will also be done so with models of all shapes and sizes.”
The underwear line is only the first stage for Feminist Style, and Sanagavarapu intends to expand the brand’s horizons with more varied products. But she hasn’t finalized anything just yet.
“Our mission is to ‘sell products that target sexism to promote gender equality’, so as long as we see ads and products with sexism there will always be something new for Feminist Style to do. One obvious example of a product that fits this description — which may or may not be our next product — is how the only Halloween costumes for women are all ‘sexy.’ There’s nothing wrong with any woman choosing to wear a revealing costume, but when that’s the only option available you know that something is off.”
As of this posting, she only has $13k out of $150k, with 17 days left! Tumblr, I know you want this, and we can easily do it!
Amsterdam by Irene Suchocki
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